I know a marvellous woman, let’s call her Belle, whom I’d like to know better. She’d be a great mate, I feel in my bones. Only thing is, we’ll never be close because she’s a Rescuer. She’s only interested in you if you’re in trouble and she can help, but if you’re OK she not that available.
We were in the same hobby group for a while, we have people in common, yet that’s just how she rolled. Frustrating. I wouldn’t act the Victim to get her attention.
Different subject – but is it? I had a Business Mentor vet my blog. She said, “lots of insights, not enough selling, no urgency.” Fair enough. I wasn’t surprised but something there reminded me of Belle’s energy, “I’ll help you but you can’t help me”, around this. Am I being a Rescuer here in this space and it prevents you, dear reader, really connecting with me? Stops me receiving your trust and funds?
I got in touch with the difference between ‘giving’ energy and ‘receiving’ energy in a video recently*. For me, ‘receiving’ has a softer, less energetically directed, vulnerable aspect to it – maybe that’s what stops Belle and me going there. Yet it is wonderful, rich in its own way and REALLY connecting. And we know it’s vital for a meaningful exchange to take place that both give and receive go on, right?
I dislike selling when it’s pushy and out of context, and in some way that hampers my presenting sales information, but all the same I really really want to help you to connect, communicate, speak up and unleash yourself. That involves you getting you into a commercial relationship with me, apart from free materials like this newsletter and this week’s events. To put it another way, it needs me to receive from you just as much as for you to receive from me.
So selling you my services is spot on. Especially if you are a great fit, a candidate who wants to reach your next step, and who believes I can help you get there through enhanced connection, communication, Speaking Up skills and Unleashing Yourself programs.
It’s a disservice to you if I fail to make you offers. It’s a disservice to both of us if those offers aren’t things that you can easily and smoothly say yes to.
Urgency And there is urgency here. I want transformation for you. Every day you put off getting yourself coached or professionally supported is detrimental to your energy and drive if that is the best way for you to change. You want to get in touch with your escalator, your hot air balloon that’s going to take you upwards and onwards to that destination you can reach out and touch in your daydreams. That you can taste – it’s on the tip of your tongue. You can smell it. That’s not where you are right now. That tastes dusty and mildewy.
I want you to unleash YOURself so much. So forgive me if my energy has been not been ‘receiving’ enough for us both to really connect and make that happen. I can recognise it at last. And I want transformation for me too. My business needs you in order to function, to keep growing, to keep unleashing ITself. And I need you to unleash MYself.
And of course, in the service of giving, even if you’re not an ideal client for me, you might want to look at this concept in relation to your own interactions with your boss, your clients, your family members. I promise to receive your feedback with true openness should you wish to offer it.
1. An exchange you desire isn’t happening. Check and see what energy you’re in. If you want help with this, check A New Way of Hugging* from Rachel Jane Groover.
2. If you are in perpetual ‘giving’ mode, is there ‘receiving’ space the other end?
3. If you think you are in ‘receiving’ mode, are you truly open to accepting whatever might come?
Programs right now
You need to be able to grow and change, be on time and not be a moaner for this to work.
If this says “yes” right now, call me on 0413610350 or email to Glenda@glendathompson.com.au. I’d love to have that conversation. Even strategy sessions alone have got people moved, directed, motivated and leapfrogging.
2. Get Clear and Get Traction - If you already suspect you need coaching, or are a returning client, you may want to start pronto with the Clear and Traction package. It has a 90 minute starter session and three other 60 min sessions, plus phone and email support. This program can have you on your way in no time. Now. Imagine feeling better already this time next week or even sooner?
Deciding itself changes everything. Call me now on 0413610350 or email to Glenda@glendathompson.com.au and we can get into YOUR stuff and start sorting it out straight away. I receive a fee for this package, obviously, and I am happy to share the figure with you once we discuss your needs and see if this is right for you.
Energy Boost ‘When you ask for what you need and receive what people and the world have to give, you reduce stress and gain energy.’ – Amanda Owen from The Power of Receiving: A Revolutionary Approach to Giving Yourself the Life You Want and Deserve.
Coming up – Events
This Saturday Nov 29 Afternoon tea from 3pm to 5pm.
The Flourisheer tribe’s end of year gathering and general gab-fest. Let’s get among the cakes!